THE DEFAULT IS OPTIONAL.
Your life.
Your blueprint.
Turn the default off.
default / noun
A preselected setting or course of action that applies when no alternative is actively chosen.
Here, it’s the life you end up with when you follow the path laid out for you.
We grew up hearing: Go to school. Find a stable 9–5. Work your way up. Build your life around a paycheck.
DEFAULT: OFF means choosing a different blueprint.